Devious Concoctions.

Currently listening to Metallica - Enter the Sandman. Haha, am totally influenced by the girls in my band to start listening to old school metal. Or was it rock? I still don’t know how to differentiate between the 2 of them. Oh well, they’re cool anyway. I’m so in love with Nickelback! Their songs may be all the same theme, but i still love it. Haha, i’m such a poor critique on music. I mean, some people are fussy in the sense that if the music has the same chords played over and over again, they think they’re none creative. However, if the music is catchy, or i like it, i don’t really mind if they play it all in G chord or whatever. Not to mention i don’t really listen to the chords being played bar by bar, i just listen to it whole.

I miss everyone in Mass Comm. I just saw Alvin and Kerry like 4 hours ago. I was a brief meeting coz they had to rush for some practice. But for that lil moment, i almost wished i hadn’t given in so easily and go to A levels. I would still be hanging out with the other girls and laughing in class, and munching on skittles secretly. Sigh………… Oh well. Everything happens for a reason kan? Can’t wait to see what’s the reason for this….

Lately i’ve been lending an ear to listen to everyone’s problems. Of course, most of them had something to do with relationships. Ah… the trauma we teens go through in our evolution from teen to adult. Oh well. It’s odd. No matter what i hear, and who i hear it from, they all have a similar pattern. Both party seems to think that the other is at fault. We’re so kiasu that we refuse to let defeat. Of course, some of us may just back down coz we don’t want the arguement/situation to worsen. But think about it. It’s not who’s at fault. Because technically, it takes 2 to tango. So if something were to disrupt the peace of a r’ship, don’t u think it’s both their faults? One hand doesn’t clap by itself (or something along that line) U bboth share the same world, doesn’t it makes sense that not only party can make life hell? Well, yea in certain cases it’s one who’s at fault like if he/she is cheating or so and so. But well, we know what to do with poison people like that right??

And for god sakes, when things like these happens, please do talk it out. I mean hey, u don’t wanna pretend it didn’t happen and move on right? Even though it is the much easier/less painful way. Yea, brilliant and let ur heart and brain remember that incident be vengeful for the rest of ur life. Come on! Yea, u guys are suppose to be honest to each other right? To not hide things and not hide ur feelings. By talking things out, both parties can see the problem through the other’s eyes. And for once, stop assuming things!! Talk it out, tell what u feel. Don’t be afraid to ask y. She/he is ur significant other. There is already a certain amount of trustworthiness, so fear not. Breath, and fire away. Good luck!

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