Get a grip!
Hmmm…. I’m not sure of what to blog about. Am in an emo mood, but half of my mind is trying to puncture the exterior fogs of moodiness and insert in positive happy things. Not working. I’ve no idea y i’m being so moody. (and no it’s not PMS if that’s what ur thinking) I realized i haven’t blog a while. Let’s recap….
I wonder if guys get intimidated by girls who do better than them in an all guy-guy field? Let’s take engineering for example. How many girls are actually in mechanical engineering? Most of us go for chemical or civil engineering, but not the on-the-field, hands-in-the-dirt type of engineering. So do guys get intimidated? The answer’s bloody simple : YES!!! I haven’t the foggiest idea why! We can achieve some feats better than they can (like faking an orgasm) and they can do some stuff better than us (will insert something here later). But what’s with all this gender bias thing? I should know. I’m surrounded by guys the entire time, for 5 days in a week a minimum of 6 hours a day. You think it’s whoopee do for 1 1/2 years? No. Hell it’s sometimes infuriating when they drift off to do their guy stuff and talk about guy things (seriously, talking about girls in an all guy group makes you phobic) that i guess it’s finally taking a toll on my insanity. I’m prolly sick and tired as any day now for being treated as someone you can insult , apologize, and then insult again.
Wait, i’m getting off topic.
Anyway, don’t get me wrong. I like the guys i hang out with now. They’re a fun sarcastic-funny group. But i just wonder if maybe i’m being taken for granted type of person? I know a few who don’t, so maybe i should care-less about the other few. Why should i bother about people who make me feel less than i’m really worth?
It’s funny and surreal when u finally realize who is in your life, and who isn’t.
March 4th, 2007 at 9:33 pm
haha.. some of it i find quite funny - and some dont. i didnt know that chemical eng would be conquered by females (and some shemales). i was planning to take that course! and yeah, its a universal truth that girls can fake orgasm, because there’s nothing coming out from their vajayjay when they do so (except some females will squirt, i will write about that soon)! guys have this liquid that you call semen coming out when they reach orgasm thus we cant fake it! you do know that right? well besides that im glad that you try to find goodness in a guy. haha… catch ya later!
~dUff~
March 5th, 2007 at 1:36 am
It’s really simple actually. Guys have a tendency to be egoistic; it’s hard-wired into the genetic makeup, probably to ensure survival as only the bold and confident ones would triumph compared to the timid ones.
In any case, it’s difficult to not stereotype people, particularly by gender, the next most popular category is of course race…haha. I remembered ranting about this to my friend yesterday over msn. “god…what is it with preconceived notions and stereotyping. does no one now try to analyze the individual himself?” As usual, I still think the best thing to do is to challenge stereotypes and be undefinable, and to view things without any pre-conceptions. Works for me at least.
March 5th, 2007 at 3:43 am
Nyahaha. See, I may not be a boy but I said exactly what Ariff said. Boo. I rock.
McDuff. Ew. But cool reasoning. vajayjay…. Hhahahahaha. You watch Grey’s anatomy don’t you?
Jen. Chill. Love you.